It may seem confusing to know what to buy to get started with BDSM. Don't feel bad. Many people interested in BDSM have run into the same problem. Fortunately, we're here to help you figure out how to create your own BDSM starter kit. These are some of the items you'll need to gather for yourself to be successful:
Eye Covers
BDSM activities usually involve placing something over the submissive partner's eyes so that he or she can't see. Some say that it adds depth to the erotic experience. Therefore, you'll need to buy a blindfold that you can use to cover your mate's eyes. Alternatively, you can buy one for yourself if you're the submissive partner.
Silencing Hardware
Many BDSM participants also like to silence the submissives. Therefore, you need to find items that you can use to prevent your submissive from talking. A hush pack (Ball GAG BDSM Set) might be the perfect item to buy. The ball gag set usually includes a leather or elastic band attached to ball that goes into your partner's mouth. The back of the band closes in a way similar to a watch. This will prevent your submissive from making any undesirable noises during role play, foreplay, or both. You can use bondage tape as an alternative. It's supposed to go around the submissive's wrists, but you can also put it across his or her mouth.
Bondage Items
Next, you're going to want to make sure that you purchase bondage items. These are the items that you will use to ensure that your submissive doesn't get loose. One example of a bondage item is a bed restraint. Another example of something you may want to use for bondage is a hand/ankle cuffs set. Additionally, you could use rope. You may also want to invest in a good collar just in case you want to add a little extra to the submission concept.
Flogging Tools
No BDSM roleplay will be complete without your flogging tools. You can choose from a variety of devices to use to keep your submissive in line. Some of the most common flogging items used for BDSM are the whip, pinwheel, paddle, spreader bar, and crop. You can use any of these items as either a flogger or to provide general pain to your partner. You should have all of your items ready before you experiment with BDSM for the first time. Getting everything ready will ensure that you both get to share the full experience.
Start Gathering Items for Your Adventure
Once you find all the items mentioned above, you'll be ready to start your journey in BDSM. Hopefully, you've found a partner to participate who is just as excited as you are to get started. Start by getting a BDSM kit today!